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#RI-6a7aabc2·5 months ago·
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“can't stop intrusive thoughts”

found out about fiancé's 30+ past partners, can't stop anxiety and intrusive thoughts

What I wish I knew
"how to be okay with it"
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate openly with partner about insecurities"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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