“Not pursuing relationships due to insecurity”

Item: Not pursuing relationships due to insecurity
Rating: 2
Author: u/SaltHelicopter8509

What Actually Happened

My insecurities, especially about my penis size, have stopped me from forming connections with girls and pursuing relationships

What I wish I knew

"Being insecure about a specific aspect doesn't define my worth"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Don't let one insecurity hold you back from improving yourself and forming connections with others"

Regret Index

8/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

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Relationships Category

3,331

Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

69%

of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.