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#RI-6a6b0450·7 months ago·
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initiated conversations about sex

My spouse doesn't want me, making me feel lonely and ashamed

What I wish I knew
"how to initiate desire without feeling like a demand"
If I could tell you one thing
"be honest and open about your needs, don't feel ashamed"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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