Relationshipscommunication
#RI-6a6b0450·9 months ago·
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“initiated conversations about sex”
What Actually Happened
My spouse doesn't want me, making me feel lonely and ashamed
What I wish I knew
"how to initiate desire without feeling like a demand"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"be honest and open about your needs, don't feel ashamed"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
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