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#RI-69ba7a9a·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 weeks after he moved out

Initiated divorce despite still loving husband

Husband blindsided me with separation request; I filed for divorce

What I wish I knew
"He wouldn't change after separation request"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest about your feelings and seek support"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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