RelationshipsMarriage
#RI-69f87578·7 months ago·
1
“Initiated divorce after 10 years of marriage”
What Actually Happened
Sat spouse down to discuss relationship and gave them a chance to address issues, but they didn't change
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate effectively and set boundaries without giving ultimatums"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate honestly and try to find a middle ground, but be prepared for different interpretations"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.
No advice yet. Be the first to share wisdom.
Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
React, question, or discuss this decision.