marriageCommunication
#RI-69aa898c·3 months ago·
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“Initiate intimacy after 2 years of sexlessness”
What Actually Happened
My wife got upset when I tried to initiate intimacy, saying I treated her like a piece of meat
What I wish I knew
"How to approach the situation without being misinterpreted"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your desires and intentions"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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