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#RI-6aa4cfb7·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 months after reconciliation

Can't stop checking past dates

Caught wife in affair, now obsessively checking past dates

What I wish I knew
"Why I'm doing this"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek professional help for obsessive behavior"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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