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#RI-6a7aac1c·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 months after discovery

“Cheated on partner while they struggled with addiction”

Boyfriend cheated on me with a random woman while I was trying to overcome addiction

What I wish I knew
"He would hurt me like this"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with your partner, but also be honest with yourself about your own flaws and weaknesses"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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