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#RI-6a7aaa27·5 months ago·
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not listening to her needs

my wife and I have been arguing constantly, she feels like I'm not listening to her and respecting her boundaries

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had communicated better and been more understanding of her feelings"
If I could tell you one thing
"make an effort to listen to your partner and respect their needs, don't assume you know what they want"
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