Lifestylecomfort and routine
#RI-69a9108b·4 months ago·
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“I want us to care the way we used to”
What Actually Happened
We stopped being spontaneous and surprising each other, defaulting to routines and coexisting instead of connecting
What I wish I knew
"How to maintain the energy and care we had in the beginning without sacrificing stability and security"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and find ways to surprise and connect with each other regularly"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Lifestyle Category
2,331
Lifestyle decisions logged. Avg regret 5.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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