relationshipsLack of intimacy
#RI-69aa87a6·3 months ago·
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“I've stopped initiating sex”
What Actually Happened
I feel sad, ugly, and fat, and my libido has disappeared
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my needs effectively"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your desires and needs"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
57%
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