Relationshipsmarriage
#RI-69a912a5·4 months ago·
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“I think my husband isn't for me anymore”
What Actually Happened
I've been unhappy in our relationship due to his people-pleasing nature and lack of self-identity
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was struggling with self-identity issues before we got married"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for a relationship where you're the main motivator and your partner lacks self-identity"
Regret Index
5/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
7%
of Relationships decisions land in the mixed band the same as this one.
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