RelationshipsDeep vs Surface Level
#RI-69aa859c·5 months ago·
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“I stopped blaming myself for my lonely friendships”
What Actually Happened
I realized I wasn't letting anyone in and neither were my friends, we were just performing friendship
What I wish I knew
"That shared experiences create intimacy"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Try doing stuff together, not just catching up over coffee"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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