friendshipsDeep vs Surface Level
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about 1 month ago
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"I stopped blaming myself for my lonely friendships"
What Actually Happened
I realized I wasn't letting anyone in and neither were my friends, we were just performing friendship
What I wish I knew
"That shared experiences create intimacy"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Try doing stuff together, not just catching up over coffee"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
friendships Category Average
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of friendships decisions share a similar regret distribution. (Coming soon)
Impact
-
Financial and Psychosocial impact distributions for this subset.
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