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husband's behaviorlack of responsibility
#RI-69aa8ca9·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years

I stayed in the relationship

I feel like I'm constantly managing him, he lies to me and himself, and he's not taking care of our life together

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had seen these patterns earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't tolerate this behavior, it's not okay to be treated like a parent"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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