“I stayed in a relationship despite his lack of family involvement”

Item: I stayed in a relationship despite his lack of family involvement
Rating: 2
Author: u_Shuocaocao_caocaodao

What Actually Happened

My husband didn't attend my mum's 60th birthday, despite my clear expectations

What I wish I knew

"I wish he'd choose me over his own discomfort"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Don't settle for someone who consistently prioritizes themselves over you"

Regret Index

8/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

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relationship Category

743

relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

73%

of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.