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relationaltrust issues
#RI-69a91298·2 months ago·
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Lookback: almost a year after our initial breakup

I started talking to her again despite her inconsistent behavior

She initially seemed interested, but her behavior changed and she became inconsistent and distant

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had seen the signs of her avoidant tendencies earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be wary of inconsistent behavior and don't ignore red flags"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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