relationshipInfidelity
#RI-69ba761c·4 months ago·
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“I pursued a relationship with someone already in a long-term relationship”
What Actually Happened
I met J at a concert and we had a deep connection navigate her long-term relationship with P
What I wish I knew
"I wish I understood the depth of her commitment to P"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and your partner about the risks of infidelity"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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