relationshipsUncertainty
#RI-69a910c2·2 months ago·
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“I'm unsure if I want to call it quits or not”
What Actually Happened
I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months, but I'm not sure if I genuinely like him. He's clingy and makes me feel uncomfortable when he talks about the future.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew whether my feelings for him are real or just a result of my attachment issues."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and the other person about your feelings and boundaries."
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
16%
of relationships decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.
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