relationshipCommunication
#RI-69a91054
about 1 month ago
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"I'm unsure if I should stay in this relationship"
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot due to his harsh behavior and lack of responsibility in our problems. He often ignores my feelings and blames me for his reactions. I feel like I'm always the one apologizing and trying to understand him, but he doesn't make an effort to understand me.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if he was truly sorry for his actions or just trying to solve the problem quickly"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and don't settle for a relationship where you're always the one apologizing and trying to understand the other person's feelings."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relationship Category Average
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Impact
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