Relationshipsabusive relationship
#RI-69ba79b9·6 months ago·
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“I'm unsure if I'm overthinking or if my boyfriend is abusive”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend belittles me, makes mean jokes, and compares my crying to his raised voice. He says I'm confrontational and won't find anyone else like him.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if his behavior is workable or if I deserve better"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and don't settle for someone who makes you feel belittled or unvalued"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
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