Relationshipscommunication
#RI-69ba760f·6 months ago·
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“I'm trying to make our relationship work despite feeling unimportant”
What Actually Happened
My girlfriend had a breakdown and then realized she cared about me, but I feel unloved and unimportant
What I wish I knew
"She should've communicated her struggles and feelings with me from the start"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and struggles"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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