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#RI-69ba7a0d·6 months ago·
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“I'm tired of chasing her”

I've been dating her for months, but she doesn't make an effort to communicate with me

What I wish I knew
"she wasn't looking for a serious relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't chase someone who doesn't want a commitment"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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