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#RI-69aa8575·3 months ago·
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“I'm consistently putting in more effort than him”
What Actually Happened
I feel taken for granted and drained from always traveling to him and him not prioritizing our time together
What I wish I knew
"He would make more of an effort to prioritize our relationship"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your needs and boundaries clearly to avoid feeling taken for granted"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
14%
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