relationshipCommunication
#RI-69a913f4·2 months ago·
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“I don't like to talk about my exes and sex life”
What Actually Happened
My wife kept asking about my exes and sex life despite my repeated requests to stop, leading to a huge argument and her refusal to apologize.
What I wish I knew
"That she would respect my boundaries and not push the issue so aggressively."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your boundaries clearly and assertively, and be prepared to walk away if they're not respected."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Same Outcome Band
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