Relationshipssexual abuse
#RI-69a919fa·4 months ago·
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“I didn't realize I was a victim until 7 years later”
What Actually Happened
I was abused by a family friend at age 9, and I didn't understand it at the time
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had recognized the abuse earlier"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts and don't be afraid to speak up"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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