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#RI-69ba75c2·4 months ago·
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I didn't change enough

I hurt my boyfriend with my harsh behavior and excuses

What I wish I knew
"How to change my protection mechanisms"
If I could tell you one thing
"Self-reflection and seeking help is key to changing negative behaviors"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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