personalRelationship
#RI-6a23c8ed·6 months ago·
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“My husband smokes heavily, 2-3 times a night”
What Actually Happened
His constant smoking makes me unattracted to him, and he becomes a fool, causing problems at home
What I wish I knew
"He would have cut back on weed"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate with your partner about their substance use"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Same Outcome Band
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