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#RI-69aa87ca·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 months into marriage

“husband wants more blowjobs”

husband feels undesired due to lack of frequent blowjobs

What I wish I knew
"clear expectations about sex"
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate openly and honestly about desires"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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