Relationshipscommunication
#RI-69aa8776·5 months ago·
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“Husband's comment on readiness to be a mother”
What Actually Happened
Husband's comment hurt my feelings and made me question my ability to care for a child
What I wish I knew
"That he had concerns about my readiness before I got pregnant"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and concerns"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
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Same Outcome Band
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