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#RI-6a23ced1·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 10 years with husband

Need cosigner for private loan

Husband refused to cosign, causing loan issues

What I wish I knew
"Communicate financial goals before loan decisions"
If I could tell you one thing
"Discuss financial responsibilities with partner before large purchases"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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