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#RI-69ba7692·4 months ago·
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Husband prioritizes BJJ and video games over therapy

Husband's depression and frustration affect our marriage and daily life

What I wish I knew
"He's not trying to be mean, his autism makes him blunt"
If I could tell you one thing
"Encourage open communication and understanding of each other's needs"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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