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#RI-6a7aa9cc·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 9 years

“Paid for a lap dance without telling me”

I discovered my husband paid $700 for a lap dance and tried to contact the stripper

What I wish I knew
"He was still in contact with the stripper 3 months later"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about any infidelity"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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