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relationalinfidelity
#RI-69ba7705·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 10+ years

Husband follows 800+ women on social media

His public behavior makes me feel embarrassed and disrespected

What I wish I knew
"How to communicate this without making him defensive"
If I could tell you one thing
"Approach the conversation with empathy and avoid being accusatory"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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