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#RI-6a9ebfc0·5 months ago·
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husband didn't help with childcare

My husband didn't help with bedtime routine, left kids up late

What I wish I knew
"He would actually help with parenting"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate expectations clearly with your partner"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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