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#RI-6ae5d423·5 months ago·
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“Asking his BM to pick up his son”

Husband left, hasn't contacted or paid bills

What I wish I knew
"His intentions, financial situation"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with co-parents, set boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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