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Relationshipshusband's transition
#RI-6a6b066b·9 months ago·
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Lookback: after husband's transition

“married without disclosure”

Husband hid being trans, now stuck in loveless marriage

What I wish I knew
"knew about husband's trans identity before marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"disclose identity before marriage"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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