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#RI-6ad1a210·5 months ago·
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“Spent weekend picking out gifts together”
What Actually Happened
SO returned gifts without telling me, expected me to be okay with it
What I wish I knew
"You should've asked me before returning gifts"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate financial expectations and decisions with your partner"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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