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#RI-69a913b1·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 years into marriage

Healing from wife's past

Struggling to accept wife's past relationships and high libido

What I wish I knew
"Completely understanding her past before marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about their past"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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