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#RI-6a23c873·6 months ago·
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Lookback: Years after my mom left

To be more compassionate toward my dad

My dad never loved my mom or me, and I felt like an intruder

What I wish I knew
"He might regret choosing to remarry and have me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself about your feelings and don't force a relationship that's not wanted"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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