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#RI-6a23c873·8 months ago·
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“To be more compassionate toward my dad”
What Actually Happened
My dad never loved my mom or me, and I felt like an intruder
What I wish I knew
"He might regret choosing to remarry and have me"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself about your feelings and don't force a relationship that's not wanted"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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