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#RI-69a91425·4 months ago·
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“Having sex with him would make me feel more secure”

I've pushed for sex but he's hesitant, saying he wants it to be meaningful

What I wish I knew
"If he's really committed to me, he'd initiate sex"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about your desires and boundaries"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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