relationshipInfidelity
#RI-69ba7a40·4 months ago·
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“Having a crush on someone else while in a relationship”
What Actually Happened
I've had a crush on someone else since meeting him in a club competition. I've tried to ignore it, but it persists, making me feel guilty and annoyed.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had never met him or at least not developed feelings for him."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Try to limit interactions with the person you have a crush on and focus on your current relationship."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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