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#RI-6ad6e764·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 hour phone call

“I tried to end things with him”

He guilt-tripped me into meeting up again after I said I didn't want a relationship

What I wish I knew
"He might be autistic and have attachment issues"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be clear and direct about your boundaries and needs"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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