RelationshipsInfertility
#RI-6a7aad35·5 months ago·
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“Feeling not good enough for husband”
What Actually Happened
My husband's grief over our dead child makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him, especially since I passed on the genetic condition that caused our child's death.
What I wish I knew
"How to overcome my feelings of inadequacy after our child's death"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't let grief and infertility define your relationship, focus on the love and commitment you have for each other."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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