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#RI-6a7aaafb·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year of dating

“I want to find genuine men as a goth girl”

I've been disappointed by men who objectify and degrade me

What I wish I knew
"Guys should respect me as a person, not just a fantasy"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be yourself, don't change to attract someone"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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