relationshipsMarriage & Incompatibility
#RI-69f86585·5 months ago·
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“I got married to my wife.”
What Actually Happened
I’ll try to keep this concise but it’s complicated so bear with me.
My wife and I met through a matchmaker about 3 years ago and got married last year. Same cultural and religious background. Genuinely good people on both sides. She loves me; I don’t doubt that for a second. And I love her. That’s what makes this so hard to write.
But I’ve lost myself inside this marriage and I don’t know how much longer I can keep going.
Before I met her I had built a life I was genuinely happy with. My own
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Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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