relationshipsPartnership Issues
#RI-69a910ac·2 months ago·
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“Giving partner another chance after 5 years of inaction”
What Actually Happened
Partner suddenly makes effort after threat of separation, but previous inaction causes resentment
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she was capable of change before now"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't give someone a second chance without seeing consistent effort over time"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
57%
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