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#RI-6a7aa8f7·3 months ago·
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“Comparing me to her past partners hurt my confidence”
What Actually Happened
My girlfriend said I lack the 'sexual aura' of her past partners, making me feel insecure and affecting our sex life.
What I wish I knew
"How to improve our connection without feeling like I need to compete with guys she's trying to move away from"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about feelings and boundaries to avoid hurtful comparisons"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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