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#RI-6a6b07f7·7 months ago·
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My girlfriend reads erotic stories on Wattpad

My girlfriend's past behavior of reading erotic stories and fantasizing about anime characters has resurfaced, making me feel insecure and worried about our relationship

What I wish I knew
"Why she feels the need to romanticize fictional characters when I'm trying to love and care for her"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and concerns to avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings"
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