relationshipspartner's behavior
#RI-69f86ce7·5 months ago·
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“Told my girlfriend I needed space for the night.”
What Actually Happened
My girlfriend has a severe drinking problem. After day drinking, she went hiking alone, met a man, and got his number, which made me furious and I told her I needed space.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to effectively address her alcoholism and the disrespect I feel from her actions."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Do not ignore serious red flags like a partner's uncontrolled drinking and questionable behavior with strangers."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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