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#RI-69a91335·2 months ago·
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Lookback: After partner's trip

Found suspicious texts on partner's phone

Found flirty texts with another woman on partner's phone

What I wish I knew
"How to navigate my feelings and trust issues"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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